February 2012
breakups
Breakups, I’ve heard, are supposed to be just that. Breaks. Hard, clean breaks. No talking, no seeing, no touching … keep your hands to yourself. The relationship is over. You’re not supposed to sleep with the guy who just broke your heart a week ago. Don’t underestimate the power of sex, even with someone you’ve been doing it with for a very long time. ...
Don’t be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You’re deeply missable. However, he’s still the same person who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he’s choosing, every day, not to be with you.
